Your only lifelong relationship is with yourself

I read this quote today, from an unknown source:

A boy asked his mom, “How will I be able to find the right woman for me?” The mom answered, “Don’t worry about finding the right woman, concentrate on being the right man.”

Which got me thinking, “there are so many ways to say this.”  Which ring true for you?

* You don’t have to look for the kinda person to be with
when you are the kinda person to be with. *

* Don’t look outside yourself for the right person,
look inside yourself for the right person. *

* Be your own soul mate, and then like attracts like.*

Notes

  1. jamesbradford reblogged this from pollyannaponderings and added:
    Lynne is going to kick my ass for this because she knows of course that I adore her but also that I can be a...
  2. jamesbradford said: What about all the people who put out positivity, love, kindness & altruism yet still end up with an abusive spouse or similar situation? R we sending them the message that it’s their own fault cause they weren’t the right kind of person themselves?
  3. pollyannaponderings posted this