April 2011
13 posts
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Dear Bullies
I speak not to the victims or survivors, but the perps Who perpetrate such violence against those they see as twerps Don’t get a badder attitude, don’t get a bigger bat, Just get better at being a good person, less a brat! It’s not a rite of passage, you don’t have the right to treat A person you don’t like with words of hatred, you don’t beat Another ‘less in self defense. These kids did not...
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Beginner's Guide to BDSM
An English Sonnet
Step one: list all your fantasies and fears Step two: have every lover do the same Step three: trade lists and talk ‘til it appears That everyone’s on board to play the game
Step four: discuss your strategy and goals Step five: start slow and build up over time Step six: enjoy the shifting of controls As toward bliss and ecstasy you climb
Step seven: know your safe word,...
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Friendly muses
John “feels that answers are provided and solutions are working, albiet on their own time frame and from a power greater than I…holding the pencil and paper is a true gift….at times…”
I respond:
By hook or by crook, my pen and my book or my keyboard and screen, I will roar what I mean as I live and I love and I laugh and unload, my mode of expression, my code...
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Creationships - An English Sonnet
Monogamy’s a complex work of art Which most have learned to paint with simple strokes. While polyamory spatters one heart Among, not just another but, more folks.
An abstract concept so few seem to grasp, Despite the people’s choice of which lovestyle, Is: holding partners tightly is to clasp Their love as if your own - that is denial
Denial of this basic truth as such: That neither someone’s...
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Soul vs. Ego. Winner: Love.
I read this quote the other day:
Souls love. That’s what souls do. Egos don’t, but souls do. Become a soul, look around, and you’ll be amazed-all the beings around you are souls. Be one, see one. When many people have this heart connection, then we will know that we are all one, we human beings all over the planet. We will be one. One love. And don’t leave out the animals, and trees, and...
“Souls love. That’s what souls do. Egos don’t, but souls do. Become a soul, look...”
– Ram Dass (via mymindcravesnectar)
“Rape isn’t a ‘natural hazard’ like a cliff edge that women must be careful to...”
– Kat Banyard, The Equality Illusion (2010)
“You can never awaken using the same system that put you to sleep in the first...”
– Gurdjieff (via heartmindspirit)
Got jealousy? →
Much of what I read in this blog (http://blog.heyfoxy.com/posts/sexual-jealousy) really resonates with me. In fact, there are multiple sentences and, in some cases, even entire paragraphs which I would speak verbatim when describing my stance on jealousy.
The key insight for me was realizing what purpose jealousy serves. The emotion in isolation is perfectly normal, and even healthy when...
